Thursday, January 27, 2011

'O' MY GOD!


‘O’ My God!

One thing that I did unfailingly after reading Orhan Pamuk’s “The Museum of Innocence” or “Masumiyet Müzesi” was recommend it to everyone I knew, loved, hated or even ignored. Last night Penguin presented an evening with him and launched his new book “Orhan Pamuk the Naïve and the Sentimental”, and there I was delighted to discover more reasons to admire him. In fact everyone admires him… People vied to talk to him. There were all sorts of people… people who genuinely follow his literature, people who came to brush shoulders with the who’s who, people who wanted to know “what’s the fuss about Pamuk, suddenly!” People who were there by means of being well connected people who wanted to tell their neighbours, “Hey last night I was at Orhan’s book reading… and you? Ok, watched Roadies!” etc etc. It was a pleasure interacting with the wide variety.

His books are for “ideal readers” who apart from being entertained read to shape their souls and build their characters. He has been an ideal reader in his growing up years, took to books to make and shape his character and to enrich his soul. When Orhan’s dad found books migrating from his library shelf to that of his son’s he said, “Aha, the books have migrated to the higher echelons!” Guess this is the only story of migration that wasn’t met with a frown! Reading hones ones imagination, he said, “When you read, the words written bring a picture to your mind and you start imagining, you become the part of the story and tend to live that character!”
The not-so-young-Turk (age 58) of Turkish Literature talks about love and makes one look for love around him. (That’s what MOI did to me!) His hero Kemal Mustafa, in “Museum of Innocence” falls in love and fails to fall out of it… unlike a lot of us! “People fall in love and find some way or the other to come out of it, but my hero can’t find any way that makes him fall out of love with Fusun!” Through this book, set in a Muslim culture, he went into the detailing of having sex before marriage that Islam prohibits.
He doesn’t mind falling in trouble for discussing the family ties that start reeking. His book “Istanbul – The Memories of a City” is an autobiographical attempt, and he brought out the lost tradition of joint family. When we can write about the family that eats together, sleeps together, cheers together we can even enjoy the liberty to write about the family that falls apart together. Orhan doesn’t believe in wasting space by not telling what needs to be told! He said, “If there is family resentment one should be able to bring that out in the book.”

What’s inspiring is that he wrote “Istanbul” when he was on the verge of depression. In an interview he recalled: “My life, because of so many things, was in a crisis; I don’t want to go into those details: divorce, father dying, professional problems, and problems with this, problems with that, everything was bad. I thought if I were to be weak I would have a depression. But every day I would wake up and have a cold shower and sit down and remember and write, always paying attention to the beauty of the book.”

I have always read, “Patience pays” and saw it last night how magnanimously it pays!
All of his books have been translated in different, around 50, languages. How amazed I was at his faith in a non-western way of expressing- Turkish. He started with Turkish language; popular success came late, but it came with a bang. For Orhan, neglecting a non western writing is equal to, “neglecting a lot of human experience!” I would like to end with one his quotes, “What literature needs most to tell and investigate today are humanity's basic fears: the fear of being left outside, and the fear of counting for nothing, and the feelings of worthlessness that come with such fears; the collective humiliations, vulnerabilities, slights, grievances, sensitivities, and imagined insults, and the nationalist boasts and inflations that are their next of kin ... Whenever I am confronted by such sentiments, and by the irrational, overstated language in which they are usually expressed, I know they touch on a darkness inside me. We have often witnessed peoples, societies and nations outside the Western world–and I can identify with them easily–succumbing to fears that sometimes lead them to commit stupidities, all because of their fears of humiliation and their sensitivities. I also know that in the West–a world with which I can identify with the same ease–nations and peoples taking an excessive pride in their wealth, and in their having brought us the Renaissance, the Enlightenment, and Modernism, have, from time to time, succumbed to a self-satisfaction that is almost as stupid.
—Orhan Pamuk, Nobel Lecture

Saturday, June 20, 2009

About me


Today I am celebrating myself, because no one else is doing that. Just joking man! I am trying to write something which I can't in black and white. And can write a thing like this only on networking sites, where i have not signed. But then for this reason why should i be deprived of the pleasure of singing paeans about myself. Last when I signed in on a massively popular social networking site, i was thrilled to write the section which said: About me and I went ahead using the space for my description. I still remember what I wrote: About me mmm... The vial is open and can you capture the fragrance? No na then how can you put Eram in words. What blasphemy! Then I signed out 'coz i was bored.

A year later, I signed in on blogspot. Again, I was excited about writing in the same section saying: About me. I went ahead but was disappointed to see what all i wrote was not updated. Then I thought of hitting back with a vengeance and decided to write a blog on myself. Now the this post is About me and I am again elated to begin... all those interested in seeing the live example of vanity, which they once read in Thomas Hardy's Far Away From The Madding Crowd fiction can stay tuned in:

About me...?? Unpredictable me, sometimes lemon, sometimes honey.
Silly me, sometimes accidentally, sometimes consciously.
Intelligent me, sometimes willingly, sometimes unknowingly,
Creative me, hah! perennially.
Beautifull me, only when don't take calorie.
Ambitious me, sometimes like herself , sometimes like a celebrity.
Latent me, sometimes explored, sometimes not seen.
Active me, sometimes hyper, sometimes productively.
Confused me, sometimes by choice, sometimes driven by plenty.
Original me, sometimes blunt, sometimes simply.
All of this sums up for the column About me till eternity. :)


Saturday, December 20, 2008

Where's the treasure?


Porque donde esta tu tesoro, alli esta tambein tu corazon
This is Mexican for, 'treasure is nowhere but in your heart.' And the above picture is the graphic expression of the thought. Alfredo Castaneda graphic artist of Mexico is the mind behind this masterpice that has been shipped from Mexico's Kyron Archive and put on the walls of Lalit Kala Kendra in the display of Mexican contemporary prints.
No one could resist the temptation of this work and stood for long admiring the piece of art that was beautifully presented in a shining wooden frame.
The catalogue of the exhibition is worth devouring , it is special to me and why? The embassy himself gave it to me and the secretary said, "There were eight catalogues and you are the only one here who is getting it." Ellan, Mexican Ambassadors wife said, "We were looking for you as His excellency wanted to give the catalogue to you himself."
Oh God why am I glorifying this?? ;)
Probably these little things add to the treasure in my heart.

Friday, November 21, 2008

When is Sisters Day??









I don't know why it is coming so late, this post on my sisters should have ideally been the first one to be written. But better late than never, since it is my 25th...silver jubilee post I can dedicate it to someone special that's for my sisters. Without thinking of what others will say I take the charge of announcing that Sisters Day should be celebrated when the three of us, "Ambreen, Aqsa and Me," realised that our togetherness is our strength that can withstand any adversity. I still remember how I cribbed during my early teens, "Why don't I have a Best or bestest friend," to this my sports teacher said you have but you haven't realised, "You are looking for a friend, when you eat, sleep and breath with Ambreen and Aqsa, probably they are the ones' who are meant to be your Best Friend." At that time I dismissed the thought as , "How can I be when I fight with them, cheat them on the Maggie by eating theirs after having mine, sipping more of frootie from their can than they actually allowed." 
But now when both of them are away and I haven't seen them long months I have been getting the pangs for writing an ode to them and celebrating sisters day. It's everyday at home when I have to eat my dinner alone, mix sugar and horlicks in milk alone, settle my wardrobe alone, listen to mom and dads instructions alone and go to food joints alone. Deep inside I know it's the vacuum that has been created by their absence which no one can fill. Now that the two of them have postponed their visits to next year...Jan 1 2009. I am getting impatient to hug Aqsa while sleeping and talk about our dream man with Ambreen.
I am not ashamed in saying that I have learnt a lot from them, whether it is Ambreen's indifference to favouritsm, to people who constantly compare her with fairer sibling, or brighter batchmate. She doesn't give a damn, with patience she dealt and weaned them out of her life. Today they cry for her affectionate glance. One more thing that sets her apart from others is, 'If you have messed with me then she will take it personally so much so you would think, "But I didnt wrong her." Hurting me was enough for her to dissociate herself with you. This is one reason why I don't reveal many of my insensitive friends to her. (I know she will be very happy after reading this after all the Leo Lioness is getting the attention) From Aqsa what I have learnt is, 'Do not worry,' it has now become an anthem we actually say this to motivate eachother, to put a certain demand at a suitable time and to curb the desire of having a frock of frills because it is just too expensive. She is one such person who is living in the future seeing me as her kids' Amma Khala, who will pamper them. Her imagination sometimes becomes difficult when she says, "Eram Apa I can imagine how good you will look after losing weight. You don't love me because if you did you would have lost some weight," now how can that be associated with my love for her. Please help!

I adore them and when they are not there I read for long hours, I stay in office for long , I get in touch with people who I would not attend when they are around.
You see I have finally found not one but two best friends, something that Aqsa insisted on always, "When we are together we don't need anyone." Touchwood!!

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

One Two, cha cha cha!



There are visibly two categories of people I have met so far who dance to the tune of life, One Two Cha cha cha!! in their own way
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One: Who find faults
Two: Who work against all odds
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One: Who have no clue
Two: Who exactly know what to do
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One: Who run after others
Two: Who make others run after them ;)
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One: Who are news breakers
Two: Who are news makers
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One: Who fall in love
Two: Who rise in love
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One: Who would say the same thing again and again
Two: Who would say the same thing differently
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One: Who notice you for your tie, perfume and shoe
Two: Who notice you only if you have some sense and IQ
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One: Who will write off you
Two: Who will write History with all that they do
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One: Who take life so seriously that they crib, bitch, gamble and hoard money
Two: Who find life so short that they prefer hoarding friends, laurels and a partner a'la Honey
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One: Who hunt for happiness outside home
Two: Who find it residing just in their adobe
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One: Who fight for the peice of land
Two: Who lend for the peace in land
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One: Who quitely wait for their turn
Two: Who are always out of turn
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One: Who will be forgotten
Two: Who will be remembered for what they've done.
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Thursday, June 26, 2008

SEEKING SECRET


D has tagged me to reveal 10 top secrets about myself....let me tell you that it's not easy for a confused person of my ilk to share 10 concrete truths about himself. But just for you D i will try
1) I pretend that I'm not interested in getting knotty, But honestly I am. Will continue to show disinterest, "That don't impress me much," till the time I'm not convinced that he's the one, "Who can keep me warm in the middle of the night."
2) I want to lose weight without a strict diet regime. People say it's not possible in this janam. But trust me I visualise myself as a sexy mom and m convinced that these extra kilos are guests who will vacate the room soon.
3) I believe I'm great! and I dont know why, even after rigorous episodes of de-moralising i have gone in early phase of my working life nobody could convince me that i write "shit." On the other hand I think they don't understand.
4) I genuinely want to write biographies. Topping the list is......please don't laugh .....dreams do come true......issss Aamir Khan. I want to I want to and I want to a thousand times, Not becuase I have this fresh crush on his bhanja, Imraan Khan but because I think Aamir has a life worth being recorded.
5) I love my sisters. when they are around rest of the world fades into oblivion
6) Find young guys yummy
7) I love travelling and have not gone beyond delhi......sob! sob! Probably my honeymoon will be one travelling experience. Amen!
8) I'm not sociolable.....
9) Wow! i can tell 8 secrets about myself
10) it's done. good job
all the secrects are out.....

Saturday, May 31, 2008

HOW DO PEOPLE REMEMBER YOU?


It's important for one to create an impression that can be etched in the memory of 'the others' and thereby those recipients of your persona can remember you like that. From pigtailed schooldays to adrenalin pumping college life I without realising had created an impression on my juniors with which they remembered me.

No this did not dawn on me with Gabriel descending with the dictate to write on this, but it was for my gift shopping for a special friend that I bumped into one of my juniors with whom I had been on 'hi' and 'hello' terms. I was so engrossed in picking a right fabric with an easy price tag that I didn't notice her queueing on the cash counter. Suddenly I heard her soft and surprised voice calling my name, 'Erammm..' Hey! and it went on to hows life and wassup. As a part of conversation I said, 'Congratulate your sis on getting married,' but then i thought and even said, 'it's been seven long years wonder if she remembers me? ' To this she smilingly replied, 'Who can forget the bell-ringer (yes i was the official bell ringer of my college LC) with golden colour worn out ringing bell in one hand and melting orange bar in the other." (oh what a picture) This just deported me to that world which I had forgotten in the daily cribbing, grinding and nibbling of working life. But I was glad that I am remembered for what I did and what I was i.e my bell signifying my dedication and ice-cream my spirit to live life even if the scorching heat of summer melted my daily bread, I mean my daily orange bar

So how do people remember you?